Picking Your Battle

Social justice, according to the National Association of Social Workers, “is the view that everyone deserves equal economic, political and social rights and opportunities.” Feminists focus their efforts on issues of gender equity, which include many different goals such as defeating rape culture. While these efforts include a great deal of work, this process can provide positive results.

In my Environmental Literature course we discussed how every generation has a tipping point, it is just a matter of what can be done and when. Although the media and society as a whole often make us feel like isolated and powerless individuals, you are not just one person. But it does start with you and what you personally believe in. Learning about historical feminist efforts and current intellectual or academic work is important, but for change to occur, this must pair with activism. Although each small event may not seem impactful, by doing something, you are making small changes that can make a large change a possibility. When you pick an issue and give it time and energy, you are working toward a change. And by connecting with other people who feel the same way, we can work to fix systemic issues together.

When ISU invites speakers like Katie Pavlich to campus (Tuesday, March 10) you have some options. You could support her conservative view that hook-up culture and lack of firearms is to blame for sexual violence, rather than believing that sexual assault and rape statistics through the CDC (facts at a glance) and UN (fact sheet, brochure) are accurate and that rape culture is a systemic problem we must fix as a society. Or, if possible, you can join students from organizations on campus to wear purple as a sign of respect toward those who are victims of violence and participate in the question/answer portion of the event. The aim of this type of protest is the exercise of respectful freedom of speech, thus making a statement that will raise awareness of this important issue.

You may miss out on some chances to speak out against such problematic beliefs because you have prior commitments, in which case you can continue to seek out future opportunities to make a difference. Consider joining the women’s studies program and their honorary organization tri lota or the gender equity club, SAGE. Other clubs and organizations may be represented at fairs during the school year as well. The Women’s Center has events throughout the school year, and the Catt Center brings in frequent speakers that may be of positive interest. Remember you are not alone in your beliefs, and there are those at ISU who support your feminist efforts.

Beyond ISU, there are numerous small ways to be involved. Your involvement could include anything from seeking out and supporting feminist projects on Kickstarter, signing petitions on Change.org or through Takepart.com, sharing your knowledge through social media outlets, participating in campus events, or joining Eve Ensler’s One Billion Rising: http://www.onebillionrising.org/my-revolution/. It doesn’t matter how old you are, your gender, or your area of study; taking part starts with your commitment to help, your involvement in an event, your efforts to raise awareness, your everyday choices that support your beliefs. Progress continues with you, and you can start today.

Learning to Love Yourself

Valentine’s Day approaches with advertisements for chocolate, flowers, cards, and other items—focusing on monetary gifts primarily for significant others. But whether you have a partner or are single, the greatest love you can cherish is yourself.

Our society tends to focus on caring for others and being humble, yet also spouts advice like: if you can’t love you, how can someone else? While these sentiments are well intentioned and important, loving yourself is about happiness and well-being rather than ego and is often a challenging process.

You may be familiar with various advertising campaigns that promote healthy body image, like the most recent This Girl Can video “I Jiggle Therefore I Am” from the UK: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aN7lt0CYwHg

Personally, I enjoy how this campaign celebrates women having fun and being healthy while appreciating their diversity over promoting weight loss or shame. Other hashtag movements and projects are also promoting this type of body love.

Photographer Jade Beall’s #LoveTheMirror campaign features individuals who are working toward self-love and acceptance, which can inspire others to also love themselves. For more on her project, explore the link below: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/01/09/lovethemirror-body-image-jes-bak r_n_6438108.html?ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000046&fb_ref=Default&fb_source=message

Some people use mantras or specific statements, while others work their own mental game. There is no one right or wrong way to remind yourself that you are smart, capable, and beautiful, or as we learned from The Help: “You is kind, you is smart, you is important.”

As I work toward being happy and healthy, I started to notice different articles and resources that I had previously always ignored. In Everyday Feminism’s article, “3 Things to Remember When You Can’t Stop Being Hard on Yourself,” I was struck by the reminder to think “so what?” when I’m stressed out or rehashing the day’s events needlessly. Accepting that things happen and being able to treat the past as the past is no easy feat, but using such moments as an opportunity for self-compassion rather than guilt and shame made me hopeful. See more about the article here: http://everydayfeminism.com/2013/10/let-yourself-off-the-hook/?utm_content=bufferc826b&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_campaign=buffer

Evaluating these types of self-help articles is very important, but I also enjoy hearing first person accounts to see how certain strategies work for actual individuals. Many voices say great things, and I encourage you to seek out the ones that are most useful and meaningful to you. And, of course, share the loves with others!

One article that was recently recommended to me (from http://tinybuddha.com/blog/21-tips-to-release-self-neglect-and-love-yourself-in-action/) discusses family and culture influences and multiple steps to help shift toward a happier self-perception. I enjoyed how she acknowledged that the tips are part of an on-going process and included various physical and mental activities that could be beneficial for different people. Each individual may have a spiritual or religious belief that can also help guide them, but she also makes sure to stress the importance of seeking professional treatment as needed. As great as family and friends can be, an extra hand might be the support you need!

So in this month of “love,” don’t forget to share a little for yourself. Instead of looking at yourself in the mirror and saying “good enough,” focus on what is beautiful and what you’re going to accomplish or have accomplished in that day. And if you’re like me, you may enjoy a little you time with some wine, chocolate, and a bubble bath for no other reason than “because I deserve it.”

Resolving in the New Year

Many of us make New Year’s Resolutions, sometimes based on personal appearance or professional goals. And while improving our health and happiness are always important (although I emphasize health—not trying to fit into narrow concepts of beauty), what if we also made resolutions to help those around us?

Helping with charities, for example, doesn’t mean we give up all our fun and free time or donate lots of money. One of my resolutions is to become more involved beyond the holiday season, which includes checking out how I can be a part of a larger initiative or organization. While some charities may not appear to directly link to feminism, many social justice interests assist in issues important to women!

Huff Post Women recently reported on Charity Navigator’s rating of the 11 Best Charities of 2014, which can help point us in the right direction for social causes of interest, including the Equal Justice Initiative and branches of Habit for Humanity and food banks.


After learning about different charities, check out what local branches may be near you and how you can get involved at your own pace and interest! There are even some organizations associated with campus clubs to make it easier to be involved and socialize with peers.

And of course, when contemplating other life-changing resolutions, check out ideas like the following: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/michelle-renee/5-life-changing-new-years-resolutions_b_6385646.html?ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000046

But before we can truly recharge and begin our new year, it is important to reflect on what happened in 2014. While many frustrating setbacks occurred and it often appears that people’s needs extend beyond our capability to help, let’s check out some positive moments in feminism from last year.

Along with the awesomeness that is Malala Yousafzai and her Nobel Peace Prize and Emma Watson and her He for She campaign, other strong young feminists have worked tirelessly in 2014 and will continue to rock the world in 2015: http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/womens-blog/2014/dec/18/year-of-brave-youg-inspirational-feminist-role-models

Besides the prolific feminists (based in the UK) that are mentioned in The Guardian, many feminists have also rocked our world in America and beyond.

Along with these specific feminists, Elizabeth Plank reports on the some of the greatest moments in feminism from last year: http://mic.com/articles/105102/the-39-most-iconic-feminist-moments-of-2014

Reminding us of various feminist responses from pop culture icons as well as political and social media activism, it certainly gives me hope for the impact we can make for 2015!

Along with feminist progress in these arenas, Ms. Magazine reports on expanded gender depictions within advertising:


While advertising is clearly aimed at the buying of products, the fact that these companies are beginning to take notice of expanding notions of what it means to be a “girl” or “woman” can hopefully continue into 2015. With their success, not only can that lead to depictions beyond stereotypes and gender binaries, but it will also hopefully lead to more female workers in the making and producing of such work.

While this is certainly an optimistic review of 2014, the hope and confidence these stories provide can energize us to continue our work in 2015. May our resolutions of feminist activism make this year better than ever!

Are Women ‘Ready for Hillary’?

With the 2014 election just passing and the presidential election approaching it is important for women of all ages to take their rights into account when making a decision on the future president of our country.

With Hillary Clinton running for president in 2016 and her potentially being the first woman president, it is also important to know where she stands on hot button issues. Hillary has been focused on her stance in regards to women rights, and plans to make them a priority if she is elected into office, which is a major change from the basis of her last campaign. In regards to women here are some of Hillary’s points that she has made in regards to Women’s Rights:

  • She believes in addressing women in the work place and “the glass ceiling” that effects them
  • She believes in addressing better educational opportunities for women so that they can have the building blocks for successful careers
  • She believes that men and women need to actively work together towards equality and change
  • She believes that issues of paid leave and childcare need to be addressed
  • She believes that in this day and age men shouldn’t still be getting paid more money for doing the same work that women are doing.
  • She has worked towards keeping birth control and other options for women available to them
  • She has worked on campaigns to prevent teen pregnancy, and wishes to continue to raise education levels and reduce teen pregnancy rates
  • She spoke out against the Supreme Court’s ruling allowing some companies to deny women insurance coverage for birth control

Based on some of these key points, do you think that the U.S. is ‘Read for Hillary’? If you are interested in getting involved go to: https://www.readyforhillary.com/home and learn more about her campaign and how you can get involved. Be active in your decision for president, and make the most informed decision you can as a women in 2016.

– Submission by Taylor and Liz, MSWC Volunteer Bloggers –

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Fall Break – Safe Travels

A reminder to have safe travels for this upcoming break! Remember to relax, but also to start preparing for the next few stressful weeks left in the semester.


Mothers always get the work on Thanksgiving Day
They peel and chop roast and bake as the day sips away
But having all your loved ones sitting at your table
Makes it all worthwhile so you will do it as long as you are able
So as the day closes and the family fade away
Sit and put your feet up and enjoy THANKSGIVING DAY

By Margmax

We can’t wait to see you back soon at the Sloss House after break!

- Glyn Powell

‘Tis the Season

As the holiday season begins, so does the gift giving. But what is a feminist to do in the world of “girly” pink and dolls with unrealistic bodies or overpriced products made “just for women”? And how can we handle shopping the “boys” aisle or searching for “manly” gifts?

Books such as Redefining Girly, The Princess Problem, and Cinderella Ate My Daughter give great advice to feminists raising girls, including insight into the balance between allowing girls to choose what is popular and discussing healthy alternatives. Other gender-neutral parenting books are also helpful, but what about for those of us who are aunts and friends of parents with young children rather than parents ourselves?

When giving gifts for the children in your life (whether they are a part of your family or friend circle), remember there are options out there for you. I don’t have the money to buy GoldieBlox and the Movie Machine or the GoldieBlox Zipline Action Figure for all the nieces on my list, so I like the variety of prices and gift options from AAUW: http://www.aauw.org/2012/12/12/holiday-gift-guide-for-girls/

Separated into age ranges for 2-5, 5-10, 11-13, and 13 and up, the gift ideas include books, toys, and programs. These gender-neutral items encourage involvement in science, technology, math, music and political fields, and some even educate about health, body image, and civil rights. Other great options to explore include A Mighty Girl, A Closet of Her Own, Go!Go!Sports Girls and Everyday Feminism’s list:


This list represents a range of books, toys, and sets that reflect multiculturalism, positive body image and ableism, gender neutrality and diversity, different family lifestyles, and safety for young people of various ages. This is far from an exhaustive list of available options, but these sites can be a great place to start.

Gift giving can also be a challenge for the adults on your list, especially when trying to avoid traditional gifts. Just like gifts for children, there is no one size fits all idea or solution. One gift I’m buying is The Guy’s Guide to Feminism by Michael Kaufman and Michael Kimmel, which may open the door to great conversations about the importance of gender equity and equality.

Another favorite of mine is a Fair Trade site: http://www.tenthousandvillages.com. I enjoy buying something unique that helps support and empower entrepreneurs around the world, especially when I can do so at a local store. Other organizations, such as the non-profit One Woman Project, include feminist gifts with global donations: http://www.onewomanproject.org/#!feminist-christmas-gift-guide/c6hl What local organizations or stores do you enjoy buying from?

While no quick and easy solutions for gender binaries exist, ‘tis the season to be merry and appreciate diversity. Have a safe and happy holiday season, and I hope these ideas help spark your feminist-friendly gift list!

Last call for Auditions


This week there has been auditions for The Vagina Monologues.

The Vagina Monologues is a performance of many women’s experiences. All inspirational stories of the heart, mind, and feminine identity.

TVM is performed during V-Day week. V-Day is a catalyst that promotes creative events to increase awareness, raise money, and revitalize the spirit of existing anti-violence groups. A global movement to end violence against women. TVM is our main fundraiser for V-Day and quite fun!

Join us and our mission for V-Day by auditioning at the Sloss House: Monday, November 17th at 5pm-7pm

For more information on V-Day and how you can help go to http://www.vday.org

The Physical and Mental Safety You Deserve

As an advocate for feminism, the elimination of oppression across -isms (sexism, racism, classism, etc.), I believe we can work together as individuals and as a collective to help those who identify as women feel safe.

However, advocating for physical and mental safety should never be misconstrued as supporting victim blaming. It is not your fault if you feel unsafe, and it is not your fault if you are a survivor of sexism/harassment, sexual assault, and/or rape. The fact that our nation, our campuses, and even our homes are not always safe for us is unacceptable. I support efforts being put forth to help eliminate issues such as domestic abuse, including http://www.joyfulheartfoundation.org/programs/education-awareness/no-more, and sexual assault prevention, such as http://www.whitehouse.gov/1is2many. But while we should continue to support these important efforts, it is also important to make sure we are safe in the current world we live in.

Being aware of the resources at your disposal can assist in your physical and mental safety. As students, staying up late to do projects on campus is often a norm, and it is not always possible to find a friend to work with you. Scheduling a safety escort (http://www.parking.iastate.edu/escort) anytime from 6 pm to 6 am during class times can help make you feel safe getting to and from school and University (and Greek) buildings.

Mental safety concerns may also be present in our classrooms. The concept of the trigger warning is common within feminist circles, and the growing requests for them have sparked a debate featured in The New York Times. Bailey Loverin defines trigger warnings as “a way of identifying what may cause someone who recently experienced trauma or has post-traumatic stress disorder to relieve their trauma. They are the equivalent of content warnings on CDs, video games, movies or the nightly news, and are especially useful in classes where traumatic content is unexpected.” For more information: http://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2014/05/19/restraint-of-expression-on-college-campuses/trigger-warnings-encourage-free-thought-and-debate

These trigger warnings could be a message of awareness in a syllabus or a written or verbal warning before the individual video or article of concern. They allow survivors of various circumstances and events to prepare or address their concerns when dealing with in-class content (a situation they therefore can not control) that may trigger an emotional response. These warnings are not intended to impede classes that center around discussions of debatable topics or prevent the inclusion of challenging out-of-class literature and materials, and they certainly should not lead to the victim blaming that occurs in Jennifer Medina’s article: http://www.nytimes.com/2014/05/18/us/warning-the-literary-canon-could-make-students-squirm.html?_r=0

Trigger warnings are not a form of censorship because they are not calling for the elimination of potentially useful but challenging content. Instead, they act like movie ratings, with the understanding that most students will not have a strong reaction to the material but that some may be personally affected. Trigger warnings do not eliminate or negate important conversations regarding the challenging material or encourage people (even those who may find it personally challenging) to avoid it. Instead, the inclusion of trigger warnings provides a respect for the mental safety of students who have experiences outside of the classroom that are not their fault. Rather than making them feel additionally unwarranted trauma, let us show our awareness and concern for their experiences by providing them these trigger warnings.

For more information: http://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2014/05/19/restraint-of-expression-on-college-campuses/politics-speeches-or-trigger-warnings-do-not-stifle-thought

Your physical and mental safety matters, and as an advocate of feminism, I support an increase of awareness and utilization of the resources you need. The Margaret Sloss Women’s Center is an excellent on-campus resource that can connect you with many additional resources (http://www.dso.iastate.edu/wc/support) and the staff are open to hearing more about what concerns you as an individual. Working together we can make the changes needed for our individual and collective safety.

Open Again

Welcome Back! After a few months away, returning and new students alike are trickling into the Sloss house. As students are becoming more accustomed to their classes they discover the little hideaway where they are able to drink a cup of coffee, take a nap, or study in between classes. And we love having all of you back!












This coming week we will be having our Open House and hope to see you all there. It is Thursday, September 25 and will be held from 10:30-1:30.

Another opportunity which we are excited to host is the Womyn of Colour Network. We have a retreat with many takers set up for the 26th -27th of September, the retreat is to network and to make friends; be sure to be on the lookout for other events in the Womyn of Colour Network if you’re interested.

Until we update again I leave you with a poem:




What is sometimes called a

tongue of flame

or an arm extended burning

is only the long

red and orange branch of

a green maple

in early September   reaching

into the greenest field

out of the green woods   at the

edge of which the birch trees

appear a little tattered   tired

of sustaining delicacy

all through the hot summer   re-

minding everyone (in

our family) of a Russian

song   a story

by Chekhov   or my father



What is sometimes called a

tongue of flame

or an arm extended   burning

is only the long

red and orange branch of

a green maple

in early September   reaching

into the greenest field

out of the green woods   at the

edge of which the birch trees

appear a little tattered   tired

of sustaining delicacy

all through the hot summer   re-

minding everyone (in

our family) of a Russian

song   a story by

Chekhov or my father on

his own lawn   standing

beside his own wood in

the United States of

America   saying (in Russian)

this birch is a lovely

tree   but among the others

somehow superficial



Take Charge of Your Feminist Education

While your feminist experience and education may lead you in many different directions, I would like to thank you for making this step here whether it’s your first or one of many. Caring and sharing the views of gender equity and equality can be challenging, but you are not alone. Come see what the fun is all about…

Now that you’ve become acquainted with the Margaret Sloss Women’s Center (MSWC), I encourage you to check out the Carrie Chapman Catt Center for Women and Politics on campus. Both Centers have programs, events, and activities that place gender equity in the forefront! Additionally, Catt Hall offers leadership certificates, internships and scholarships: http://cattcenter.las.iastate.edu/leadership/

If, like me, you want to make a difference through social media, Sarah Granger has some awesome advice. While I haven’t been able to read her book, The Digital Mystique: How the Culture of Connectivity Can Empower Your Life-Online and Off, yet, I can share a recent article she published through Ms. Magazine: http://msmagazine.com/blog/2014/09/15/5-steps-to-social-change-through-digital-engagement/

One of Sarah Granger’s tips included identifying key voices. One of the most important voices to me is Eve Ensler. Being a part of One Billion Rising is a great way to be involved in feminist activism: http://www.onebillionrising.org

Sign up and see what is happening around the world as well as what events you can participate in close to home!

Interested in what else is going on around the world? Become informed! When I signed up for free newsletters through social media I was introduced to issues around the world including issues of violence,


education and women’s health,


and politics.


When sharing what matters to you, great conversations can start and minds can be gradually opened, so give it a shot!

Along with being able to impact others around you, the resources you can find along the way can also benefit you.

Looking to be successful as you graduate and enter the workplace? I just learned about a whole host of useful tips and strategies through a website: http://leanin.org/graduates/

Based on the books Lean In and Lean In for Graduates by Sheryl Sandberg, COO of Facebook, you can start or join a circle for peer support or just enjoy the free website resources.

Do you have something to share? Please let us at the MSWC know about it so we can pass it along, or let me know at smchase@iastate.edu. May your feminist education take you in many fun, wonderful directions!


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